The Perfect One

I was browsing my old blog (another website that i stopped updating for the past one year...) i cant remember how this stuff came into my mind one day and i wrote this...happy reading

the 'perfect' one

I wonder why do you need to get to know people for a long time, to check out if they are perfect for you.. and only then decide if you wanna settle down with them... To me there's no such thing about finding the 'perfect' person. We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. And sometimes the perfect person for you is the one you least expect...

You may think you know somebody inside out after years of friendship... but eventually when you settle down you'll discover new things about your partner... good things (thank you Lord!) and the bad things (oh my God!!!) People change over the years.. but at the end of the day, when things go wrong, it's how you approach the matter, you can either quit and go separate ways... or you can try to resolve the problem amicably.

I believe marriage is about trust, respect, and the need to tolerate and compromise certain things... and not the number of years you've known each other.. and we should always remember that true love begins when nothing is looked for in return...

Back in the old days, people get married thru all these arranged marriages... but most of these relationships worked out just fine... of course there will be conflicts and problems along the way, well life's not perfect...so stop bitching about it...

Anyway, i think if you can find someone who will love you because of your differences and not in spite of them, then you have found a lover for life, and that is "PERFECT"

Note : after reading this, its like de ja vu..i wrote this more than a year ago...and its really happen to my life! And my life now?.... Almost PERFECT! ;-p