The Perfect One

I was browsing my old blog (another website that i stopped updating for the past one year...) i cant remember how this stuff came into my mind one day and i wrote this...happy reading

the 'perfect' one

I wonder why do you need to get to know people for a long time, to check out if they are perfect for you.. and only then decide if you wanna settle down with them... To me there's no such thing about finding the 'perfect' person. We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly. And sometimes the perfect person for you is the one you least expect...

You may think you know somebody inside out after years of friendship... but eventually when you settle down you'll discover new things about your partner... good things (thank you Lord!) and the bad things (oh my God!!!) People change over the years.. but at the end of the day, when things go wrong, it's how you approach the matter, you can either quit and go separate ways... or you can try to resolve the problem amicably.

I believe marriage is about trust, respect, and the need to tolerate and compromise certain things... and not the number of years you've known each other.. and we should always remember that true love begins when nothing is looked for in return...

Back in the old days, people get married thru all these arranged marriages... but most of these relationships worked out just fine... of course there will be conflicts and problems along the way, well life's not perfect...so stop bitching about it...

Anyway, i think if you can find someone who will love you because of your differences and not in spite of them, then you have found a lover for life, and that is "PERFECT"

Note : after reading this, its like de ja vu..i wrote this more than a year ago...and its really happen to my life! And my life now?.... Almost PERFECT! ;-p

Lucky Vs Luckier

They say lucky is the man who is the first love of a woman, but luckier is the woman who is the last love of a man... it's true, when you're the first love of a woman, the woman would do almost anything to please you... but when you're the last love of a man, you can be rest assured that the man will accept you as you are regardless of your past and would sacrifice everything just to be with you and keep you happy.
I've never been lucky enough to be the last love of a man... and honestly, I’m not sure will I ever find one. To make things worse, I keep falling for the wrong people... save for few instances. And I still wonder why we always love the ones who hurt us and hurt the ones who love us...
Love is definitely a scary thing for me right now... but I hope some day Insya Allah, I'll find my man and I promise myself that when the time comes, I'll do my best to make him feel very lucky...

Hari Raya...and my choco cheese cake!!!

Hahah...mesti kawan2 ku gelak lagi...back log!!! yerla...dari simpan stok banyak2 satu entry kannn...


Selamat Hari Raya to all...pembaca setia Ray & Ira...ampun maaf dipintaaa...

This raya nothing much excite me...as usual this year ada la beza sikit...sesapa yg tau tu paham2 la yer...wakakakakakkak! But to make it exciting i decided to bake a cake...dah lama belajar dari Ray....and guess what..menjadi tuh!!! and everyone sukaaa...yeyy!! without any help...buat sorang2 okehhhh....

Tangan kanan mix chocolate, tangan kiri pukul telur...gambar? self timer hehehe...

Bersedia untuk masuk oven....yg putih2 tu cream cheese

Get readyy.....

Volcanic eruption due to over amount of baking powder...tapi yg kerak keras tu orang suka!

Then kek ni dah jadi korban pada hari raya.....

So my raya this year theme kaler purple...actually last year pun ala2 dah indigo gitew (kira nak masuk purple jugak la)....so raya just me, my mom and dad...on pagi raya ada la my other sibling datang after prayers...mcm biasa bersalam-salaman, bermaaf-maafan...di hari yang mulia ini....

Tgk la my nieces ni..sessi guna mekap acu untuk melaram!

Yang tengah baju purple tu kakak sulung yerrrrr....heheh

Cepat mintak mahap dengan Acu korang! yg si Raynn (baju hijau) dari pagi sampai la kesudah stok sangkut songkok mcm tuh! Boleh tahan la rabak acu dia raya kali ni...

sessi mintak maaf...bila yg baju purple punya turn nak bersalam haram tak der sapa yang amik.

TO ALL MUSLIM FRIENDS,

SELAMAT HARI RAYA AIDILFITRI

MAAF ZAHIR & BATIN..

Happy Birthday Ray...

Sorry la back log again...

Last week of puasa we ols celebrate birthday Ray hasil ehsan suaminya yang tercinta ZUL yang mensponsor majlis heppy birthday berserta buka puasa sekali gus berkaraoke! Tapi nak nyanyi lebih2 pun tak berapa heppi sangat nak nyanyi sebab perut dah kenyang...mengah beb!! so kita bawak la partner untuk back up nyanyi..maklom la memasing ada suami nak bawak untuk buat pertandingan suara laki sapa paling sedap!! ahaahaha...mak tak nak kalah jugekkkk...

Orang cibuk tengah makan...dia dah stat melalakkkk...

Orang lain pun nak pilih lagu gak cik oiii!!! takder la sampai stok nak cium skrin tuh..

So dah makan..dah nyanyi...tibalah masa nak celebrate birthday si ray nih...bila kek masuk ala2 terkejut la gitewwww....ni la bawah ni gambar2 hadiah stok hari raya..sakan member kita ni sorang...Zul ajer bagi perfume, PSP dgn choker gold (tercapai gak hasrat ko Ray...baru jer time besday ira arituh kita tunjuk2 kat Poh Kong kan....), I gave her baby-T Hard Rock dengan hand lotion Crabtree & Evelyn (ni stok geli2 malam2 dgn Zul taw...wangi jer kalo ko usap2 si Zul), Ira bagi tote bag MNG, Si Shedy kasik Perfume jugaks..kira meriahla besday kawan ku itew...

Tayang sket rantai baruuuuu....

Ni la partner kita (dah kata sumer bawak laki memasing) Tourism Idol ni okehhh...nyanyi sket..

Anyway seronok la tgk kawan kita sorang ni heppi ari bday dia...boleh lepas nyanyi lagu hepi birthday pastu nyanyi lagu selamat hari raya ramai2...

To Ray, Happy Birthday..may Allah bless you and your family always...panjang umor & bertambah murah rezeki...next year bday aku dgn laki ko kene buat lagi besar2...kata kembar lain tahun jer!!